[Joeaksa]

Marcus,

I cannot stress enough your need to contact the police and now. I have a very good friend who went though the same thing here in America. She played games with him for years.

It finally got to the point where she would hit herself to cause a bruise then call the police and tell them that she had been hit by her husband. She did this something like 20+ times and they did not believe her. Finally one of them told her that until they saw some evidence of a fight they could not do anything.

The next week she went into the bathroom and locked the door, and called the police. After they said that they were coming to the house, she hit her head against the wall and broke a bar that the bathtowels were hanging on. When they arrived she would not open the door until they were at the bathroom. They looked inside, found the dent in the wall, broken things in the room and had no choice but to take my friend who had been working in the garage and had no idea what was going on, to jail in handcuffs.

When he returned in 3 days the house had been stripped. He was later convicted of spousal abuse, all for doing nothing.

You need to contact the police and at least tell them what is going on, that you are afraid of your safety and the safety of your child. Get it on a police record so that if you go home and she does something tonight that it shows that you called first to report a problem.

Also agree with what Garth says and now is the time to be very deliberate in your actions. Get a tape recorder today and take it home with you tonight. Record what happens while you have a chance.