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I don't want to talk about the negative. I want to relate a story.
I never knew how much stress I was under in my 2nd marriage, until we split up. I had a daily work conference call, and I was an *********. Other people noticed the change, almost immediately, when we split up.
About a month after the split. I was driving home; I had about an hour commute. I started smiling. Not for any reason. I was just happy. I called them random fits of happiness. They came more often and stayed for longer...
I can read in your words the stress you are under. No one should be in a relationship that causes stress. A Relationship is supposed to be the place to reduce stress and reorganize your life. It should be [bold]THE[/bold] safe place.
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James
The pessimist complains about the wind; the optimist expects it to change; the engineer adjusts the sails.- William Arthur Ward (1921-1994)
Red-beard for President, 2020
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