[livi]

Thanks again, everyone! Like I said - I donīt think you can really imagine how much it means to me.

Here, for instance, is one revelation brought forth by you fellows:

I read your words describing what kind of person I am dealing with. You pin point her exact personality and behavior/agenda. Why did I not recognize it myself - I have had five years with her ?? You should think I would be very aware of who she is. It dawns on me that I have been repeatedly manipulated - over and over told I am the one with the wrong thoughts and behavior. I have actually been brain washed - convinced I am the one to blame. Total revelation reading you have acknowledged what I was not sure of myself but very much suspected.