[84porsche]

Not at all, I love it. You can be a drone like every other parent or you can challenge it which you are doing. I would show your daughter the letter and explain to her the reason why you are doing this.

Also, the teacher does have a good idea about involving parents with kid's homework however I dislike the approach. I think parents should know what is happening with their kids homework. My mom who teaches continuation high school has so many students with parents who don't give a care. She kicks students out of her class for misbehavior and where do they go, nowhere. They are back the next day. The only place after continuation school is the streets or jail and most of her students are already in gangs, are pregnant, or have been in juvenile at least once. She has saved many but she is their last hope IMO.