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I've certainly have never given it to him...but I worry that in he may have abused the information he has (or had...he never could keep a job for long) access to and got a hold of it through other means.

I haven't considered him a friend since high school. Actively telling him to f*** off just made him come around more often....ignoring him seems to be the path of least resistence. I still have the wedding gift check he gave to me that bounced pinned to my bulletin board...