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Originally posted by ROSSINNI
Because my upcomming marriage is dependent on this factor!!
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if you are worried about this BEFORE you get married.........................YOU ARE MARRYING THE WRONG WOMAN! run like hell from this one! wow that is as bizzarre as it comes. the only thing i was worried about, was showing up on time for the wedding and not being hungover or still drunk from my bach party! never even crossed my mind before i got married. think real hard about this one. i was married for 23 yrs and it was great until she fell into substance abuse, then it was hell! have been divorced for 8 yrs now and it is wonderful. have 2 boys 20 and 17. never had to pay child support/spousal maint...........nothing! joint custody when i could have easily nailed sole custody and child support from her. she managed a agg. DUI with a .254 BAC!!!!! and poss. of drugs during the height of the divorce. white flag went up from her side. ie. unconditional SURRENDER! she was not white trailer trash, daddy was CEO of fortune 100 company. substance abuse still occurs 8 years later. only way i will ever get married again is to live w/woman for (2) years, and then see if we still mesh like peas in a pod!