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Good and varied responses, as expected on the Pelican. My wife is 34. She is currently able to stay at home with the 2 yr old. If another child comes along then I will have one in college and two not yet in school. A fine mess and a financial mess. Wifey would need to work most likely, will she do this? Not sure, can she make enough to cover day care for two, hmm. Divorce is not an option, however the situation could go nuclear and I can't do another divorce. Moses has a pretty good angle on what she is feeling. I understand her needs in this area. My wife will sometimes make decisions that have no basis in reality. She makes commitments with her time in which she has none to spare forcing me to pick up the pieces. Her sister will have a baby in Oct. and my wife will watch the baby after her sister returns to work. This may factor into the decision for another for us as my wife will see what is takes to have two on hand. Wifey was hoping to be preg by Nov.