Chin up and all that positive stuff Brad.
About the trailer: Are you sure someone didn't borrow it? I know it's happened in the past. Check with everyone that knows where you keep your trailer.
About the girl: There's other dames out there. You're enough of an @sshole that more will come your way.
(Kidding!!)
Piss in cereal guy: He obviously has nothing better to do than kick someone while they're down. Regardless of what valid or invalid points he has, that speaks volumes about his character. If he feels you owe him something, he should speak up about it. None of this if-you-don't-know-then-I'm-not-going-to-tell-you stuff. You're not married to him. Sheesh!
Jen