try moving with a 911 as your only vehicle
I've moved a bunch. Probably the worst was helping my ex move from Pasadena to Berkeley. She lived in a studio guest house and was supposed to have it all packed up. I flew down from SF and she picked me up at Burbank airport around 5pm on Saturday. We went to her place and stuff was everywhere. Finally by 11pm we had finished packing the u-haul. Then we started the drive north. About 4am in the middle on nowhere on I5 we hit tule fog and that combined with nodding off made for an exciting hour or two. Rolled into the driveway of my apt in SF about 6am. That sucked.
The next 3 moves we had movers, but still a ridiculous amount of work. Then when I moved out I moved myself. A couple of carloads of the 911 into a converted garage, then borrowed the 4-runner to move more stuff into my first apt, then I moved myself on foot from an upstairs apt to a larger apt downstairs in the same building. I just got a big laundry basket and move the apt one load at a time. That sucked too.
It all sucks. Sorry for you pain...