i figured the arms were no big deal to test on, as they can be removed, and if i screwed them up or the paint didnt last i can easiy remove them off the car and get them done properly. ( i know a body shop guy but it wont be free). but for now, they look great! much better than before. but like i siad i wont hold my breath
thanks for all the good advice Razor,
the strips on the door are still somewhat shiney but it has some chips on the edges that bug me, i may just leave it but thats a good idea to visit a paint store and give that a shot too.