[VaSteve]

Originally posted by Porsche-O-Phile


Haven't you done enough for this guy already? I mean, if you gave him months and years and he's (obviously) done nothing with it other than get in fights and get busted for DUIs (and who-knows-what-else), isn't that evidence enough that any gifts you bestow upon him will be a wasted effort?

Sounds like a sad and confusing situation. But, things happen and paths cross where you least expect it for reasons that usually better us in one way or another - some we don't expect.

I wish you the best of luck.

I do have a question....what ARE your ongoing obligations after fostering someone? I assume that this fellow wasn't an adult when he left you....what happens to them, they just go back to the agency? Did you foster any other kids? Do you have an ongoing relationship of any sort with them?