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Originally posted by svandamme
nah , i'm fine Markus
been alone for most of my life really , it's more my doctor who brought up the subject , in the sense where he pointed at stress and lonelyness as a cause for my illness, but as it turns out , it's fixable by watching my intake of fatty food
i can related to Johnco's story
i've been alone pretty much forever, and even when i was with familly , i was still pretty much alone, because i've never been raised with 2 parents, and the one i had worked all the time and we never got along, zero affection so to speak...it is tough especially during the holiday season, but i just pick up the shifts @ work that nobody else wants, and spend my time cooking something time consuming to get through the rest of those days...
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OK if we're gonna share. Well since my car crash that left me with a physical challenge I've been even more isolated. At first vpeople were a little wierded out by my condition but it was so very obvious that I had issues(curled up right arm, right leg used to drag behind me) that people very glad to help even if it was to get me out of the way.
Now that I've adapted and have more control over my arm and leg it's not so obvious. But I still have profound stiffness in my leg, a very bad limp and my arm while better does not work to well.
When (IF) I go on a date and try to have dinner, then the arm becomes very obvious and so I try to hide it. Well the women just don't want to be bothered with a short,bald gimpy man.
So the isolation becomes more intense and I tend to close in upon myself.
This when you learn the difference between solitude and loneliness.