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Location: Palm Beach, Florida, USA
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Remember that in many ways he is still a 15 year old kid. He hasn't enjoyed the normal development process that most of us had.
This means that his judgment is not good. He will make mistakes and he will mess up. This may be the first time he's tried to do it right, and he's not likely to get it right 100% the first time.
The question is whether he tries harder after each mistake and learns from the screw ups. That's wht comes natural in dealing with a kid before you give up on him. This guy's an adult now so he's kind of lost that natural give and take and now he's in one strike and he's out territory.
See if you can manage his inevitable mistakes in a way that he can still move forward from them without getting kicked out on a zero tollerance basis.
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