[Dan in Pasadena]

Real men wash their own dishes, make their own food...unless they're momma's boys and can't feed themselves with out the help of a woman!

As for tucking in Hawaiian shirts? Uh...I gotta go with no.....no matter what, but YMMV and getting laid tends to trump ALMOST all the rules....but I think it ranks with the sandals & socks, dark socks w/ shorts, velcro tennies and worn nearly through T shirts...especially if you've got ANY sort of belly.

EDIT: Dying your hair is dying your hair...talk about "women's work?" If bleaching and highlighting ain't gay I don't know what is. You're a man, not a peacock. Again, the "laid consideration" alters many rules, but personally if my woman wanted me to do that I'd look elsewhere...but that's just me. Whatever works for 'ya...Bruce.