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Originally posted by Aurel
I have had less anger bursts and frustations
Aurel
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If U could figure out and untangle that ball of string that causes U to be fustrated and angry. U could avoid the situation or change its conditions and just by understanding what makes you angry, just by naming it tends to allow you not to be angry at it anymore. It sets U free, so the anger doesn't control you.
However with the meds your just maintaining and not discovering.
With discovery you can say, "Ahh yah, so thats what it is that pisses me off...Then Daddy when you can thread that eye of the needle with your lifes situations you are on your way to taking control of your life.
Now there is the paradox of control. Its like a tree bending in the wind, the more you are able to sway with the wind the less like to break. Conversley the more you want to control your actions the less you are able to bend and when stress is applied it breaks more readily.