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Therein lies a dilemma for me. I more or less knew this would be brought up sooner or later, I am more or less hard pressed for an answer.

All Mike would have to say is some VARIATION of "its none of your business, butt out."

That would really define the space I have with him.

On the other hand, I see Mike as a pretty healthy guy, if I thought the situation were really touchy, I wouldn't be speaking as freely as I am.

Let me say one thing about myself, I was once asked to help deal with a person who was having a full blown psychotic episode. The people who asked were very surprised at how successfull I was with that person.