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it really isn't about right and wrong...those concepts are constructs where we attach a certain outcome. One of the biggest challenges from a Buddhist perspective is getting away from "me." I struggle mightily with it. I'm not trying to say you're right or wrong, but merely point out that almost everything we say and do is about us and our world rather than other people. We impose our own ideas and will on others because it seems to clarify and strengthen our personal world view. In the end though, that lense is quite clouded by our own biases and attachments, and in fact just makes life harder. The trick is to try and recognize it and then act accordingly. Very difficult, as it runs in the face of human nature...
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