[david914]

Oh that life should be so simple! Until a couple of years ago, I was married for over 19 years to a girl that was passive to a fault. Nothing phased her very much. The last few years of our marriage, her passivity started to bother me. We sought counseling and wound up getting a divorce, largely because of me. I have since re-married to a girl who is quite the opposite of my first wife and within 2 months of our wedding, we separated. Now, we're trying to figure out if we can even live together. I have fought more in the past few months than I fought in the entire 20+ years of being with my first wife. It all comes under the category of "be careful of what you ask for..."