If he wants to sell this car; he will have to make himself available on a weekend for you - that's how it works. Hopefully one of the guys will be able to help you look it over on a weekend...c'mon fellas!
Once you have someone orgainsed to look at the car with you; go back to the seller and give him a date and time without locking him down to the minute. If he is not agreeable to putting himself out then he's not selling...or is not keen for anyone to take a real look that may uncover more *****...
Head needs to rule heart here - get tough and brush up on your negotiating skills
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