Katie,
Now you're yanking our collective chains.
You're being a real girl here - sorry but it's true.
With all the sound advice you still come back to "I love the colour and the BBS wheels".
*****!!! What about the rest of this dunger???
You're thinking skin deep only; much like the dreamers who stand in my office fairly regularly and announce they wish to buy a "2.4S Coupe, silver with black, must be Aus delivery, all original blah blah". Can I recommend a car for them? Given there were only a handful delivered new down here I usually don't even raise my head from my desk when I say "join the queue; sorry my wand is broken".
You want BBS's? EASY - BUY A SET when they come up for sale. They do; I had probably 3 sets spare and sold them - they're around.
You want lilac? Fine - paint a better car than this POS pink with purple spots if it takes your fancy.
You think the only issue here is the Turbo?
Well honey, go ahead; make my day....buy your dream car - BUT DON'T COME BACK AND WHINE ABOUT IT; OK?!
Jeez - I spend enough time arguing with my kids - don't need another.
Good luck Katie - you're old enough take make your own errors and wear the results. Maybe you'll grow A LOT through the experience.
Here's some BBS-heeled pics to keep you drooling - and no - your budget doesn't come near either of these babies...