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Clearly you are under the impression that you are in a relationship. Has she led you to believe that you two are in a relationship?
If so:
Leave without another breath. Not to be vindictive, but just tear it like a bandaid. Why continue? People will not change something as basic as this- if an adult cheats, thats just who they are. There's no "I was drunk" or "He's just an old friend" or anything like that.
If not:
This means you are F-Buddies. So, you should realize that this comes with the territory. If you can get over it and continue being F-Buddies, cool. If are CURRENTLY F-Buddies, and now you want to make it more, make that clear, and if she's down then cool. If not, leave.
Do NOT do a vindictive banging, followed by a "GOTCHA! YOU'RE DUMPED! Sorry bout throwing it in the pooper!". You are risking all types of psychotic nonsense- "He raped me!". Imaging throwing THAT fiasco into your life. Sex is simply not worth all of that.
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