Yeah, study a real feline. You gotta sit there stagnant for 15 seconds (which is a long time) after saying, "Comeer, kitty." If you do nothing, don't move, the cat will hesitate, then walk over. It's a PITA, no doubt, but very insightful AFA how women work. Oh, they shoot right back, but the real response is buried for a moment.
You know the old deal about if she says no, she means maybe and if she says maybe she means yes, etc. But, if she says yes, better stop and wait 15 seconds.