[thegeck]

JP- have you talked to your girlfriend or a girl friend? They might help more than guys with relationship problems.

I grew up with 5 step sisters who I hold dear. I don't UNDERSTAND girls, but I know HOW they will act and in this case, react. If you don't mind my opinion...

If you said something on the phone and she replied the exact opposite and then you said holy ****- that sounds like "you're stupid" to her. My sister says this about girls... "they will have a hard time segregating the meaning and the emotion." Girls relate to emotions. She hears anger. I mean this is no sardonic way.. it SOUNDS like you are angry.

You said she is bright and funny- was there a reason she stated the exact opposite? Did she not hear you right? Was there an earlier fight?

I don't want to get on here and start insulting your girlfriend or you. This is just what I've noticed being surrounded by girls growing up and dealing with my own anger fits.

I hope everything works out.