[Rick Lee]

Jake, you're my hero. That's how I want to do it, except I don't even want to deal with that much planning. I doubt my folks would hand me a check if they had no control over the planning. I am on my second house and I really can't think of a single thing I'd ask for as a wedding gift. Asking for money really turns me off and though I could use it, I really don't look like I could. I have all the household appliances, tools and furnishings I could ever need. I really hate this stuff.