[Jims5543]

True friends are friends that require no work at all. Friends that you can loose touch with as time goes then hook back up and pick up where you left off.

That said there are only have 2 couple my wife and I are friends with that fall into that category.

As time has passed, I have been burned by so called friends, over and over and over, I am at the point where my wife and 2 children are all that maters to me. My private oasis away from the world is at home. Sure, my son has friends over and my wife meets friends at the park to the little one can play but as far as outright socializing? Nah, gonna pass, a nice evening at home with the wife and kids is great for me. Or a babysitter and dinner and movie with the wife.

Working to find other true friends isn't how I see it. You find true friends by accident you cannot search for them. It should be a natural thing not something you work for.