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Oleanders are only a problem if they are eaten. Poison Ivy can be a big problem if you brush up against it too much. Not really the same. But assuming you don't have kids that eat stuff (most kids do, but not all and probably depends somewhat on their age), it shouldn't be a problem to have oleaneders in your yard.

Obviously in certain circumstances you'll want to be more careful than others.

As stated previously, there are lots and lots of plants and things that are poisonous or dangerous around the house.