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Originally posted by nostatic
and +1 for people working to avoid real human relationships/interactions.
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What's more, the "work" is used as a tool or weapon in the relationship. To make the person look like a martyr. To relieve guilt. And to foist the responsibility for WORKING on the relationship all on the other person.
"Gee, look how hard I have to work for us." or "It's not my fault I'm not around." Which in many, many cases is dishonest.