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Originally posted by cool_chick
That's awesome. It's only fair. You earned it too by hard work. IMO, just because a woman is a woman doesn't mean she's more entitled or anything beyond what she put in.
I would like to caution one thing, however. Not saying that you will, I don't know you, but just in case, but I would advise not to speak ill of your ex-wife to your son. It only causes damage to the child. No matter what, that child loves both his parents. I just wish more women would wake up and realize the ones they're hurting the most when they do that shyt is the children. For a lifetime.
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Thanks CC. I am VERY careful what I say to my son and will never pass comment about his mother in his presence. That's one of the reasons why it's very difficult to explain to him what is going on.
I'm fairly sure that she doesn't play as fair and that she tries to get him to keep secrets from me. I don't even go as far as asking him questions about what is going on, but then I don't need to. Most of the time he'll just let something slip during conversation that contradicts something that she has told me.
It really isn't fair to get him involved in her silly games.