[speeder]

I've dropped the ball more times than I could count, but learned a lesson or two:

-Timing is everything. It shows her confidence and quick-wittedness. You do not have to be obnoxious and doing an impression of someone else, but you need to jump on the bait like a hobo on a ham sandwich. Women are fickle in attraction and later on is too late, you failed the audition. Might as well move on.

If you are single, always have an upcoming event in your back pocket to invite someone to in a pinch. You need to be able to suggest something and close the deal fast, just saying "let's hang out" only works if you look like Brad Pitt and she's drunk.