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I'm very sorry to hear of your loss.

I think this is a decision that depends on many factors and that you and your wife are best equipped to make. How mature is your daughter? Will she treat the occassion with due respect? Will she be impatient and run down the aisles of the funeral home? Was your daughter close to her great-grandfather? Will she regret being left behind when she is older? How will she react to your wife being upset?

Just some things to consider. I have no answers.