[notfarnow]

Legion makes good points... it really depends on your daughter. Would she benefit from going?

At my great uncle's funeral last year, one of the nicest moments was watching my 5 yr old 2nd cousin console her father, who was very, very upset and weeping during the service. It was very touching to watch them all grieve together as a family. It seemed very appropriate for her to be there.

Either way, I'm sorry for your family's loss