[sammyg2]

His birthday is in August so he is in the right grade for his age, but if he was one month older he would be a grade higher.
I think the cut off is The second week in september.
I might let them move him up one grade, but not two.

I've always tried to make sure that he knows he is a good kid, but not different. Telling a young kid that he is not the same as other kids is a bad idea IMO. He'll figure it out for himslelf eventually, and hopefully by that time he will handle it without any issues of self conciousness.