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I've been asked to give one in a couple of days. I've never even been to a funeral (our family tends to be very long lived), much less given a eulogy. For an uncle who died in his 80s.

Any tips from anyone who has done one?

How long is it usually expected to be? I'll probably be the only one speaking on behalf of the family. I've never even heard one, other than I guess fictional on TV or in the movies. If anyone has one that they've given that they'd be willing to share, the would be great, just to give me an idea of what is generally expected.