[sammyg2]

Navin R. Johnson: And that's it and that's the only thing I need, is this. I don't need this or this. Just this ashtray. And this paddle game, the ashtray and the paddle game and that's all I need. And this remote control. The ashtray, the paddle game, and the remote control, and that's all I need. And these matches. The ashtray, and these matches, and the remote control and the paddle ball. And this lamp. The ashtray, this paddle game and the remote control and the lamp and that's all I need. And that's all I need too. I don't need one other thing, not one - I need this. The paddle game, and the chair, and the remote control, and the matches, for sure. And this. And that's all I need. The ashtray, the remote control, the paddle game, this magazine and the chair.
[walking outside]
And I don't need one other thing, except my dog.

LOL. it's human nature to want just a little more. That's all it will take to make us happy, just a little more. People in relationships sometimes want a little more but they don't want to give up anything. it becomes a tug of war, sometimes it becomes a "grass is greener on the other side" thing.

My wife is comfortable and does her own thing. Same here. We are both happy and don't want to start over.
Whoever said that for a marriage to work both people need to like and share the same things were full of balogna. That may be the case in some marriages but not all.