[Rick Lee]

I've been engaged and close to getting married once before and almost engaged once before that. I've had plenty of great, but very difficult, gf's. Honestly, my fiance now is the easiest-to-get-along-with person I've ever met. She has a heart of gold. She's nine yrs. younger than I am. And I'm pretty sure I'm set in my ways, while there's still a chance she'll change some more. But I just have not seen any of the red flags with this one in almost three yrs. of dating, that I always saw early on but ignored with all the others. And marriage was not at all something on my must-do list. It's just that I can't imagine even wanting anyone other than the one I have now.