Super Dave...to get the wing up manually, look in footwell of the driver's side, and along the left side below where your knee would be, there should be a toggle switch. Push it up and the wing should open. Push down and hold down to get the wing back in place.
As far as your side markers....they are known as pumpkins when they are stock.
You can get some really neat stuff from eric at
www.bumperplugs.com, including smoked side markers as well as the short shift kit. He has the best price I've seen at 199.
you can find lots of tech stuff as well at
www.renntech.org
Oil change is a cinch on this car as well.
J