[livi]

Seems I risk finding my self on the black list here. I had one child three children ago..

No, the problem globally is the forces and environments in many development countries that make it very difficult to avoid having "too many" children. Where the women have no saying and birth control is either prohibited by the imbecille Pope or hard to come by.

Like many other species, man has historically practiced a strategy where spawning in great number will make it more likely that at least some survive in a cruel environment of poverty and desease.

In many Western countries, on the other hand, there are almost a shortage of children.