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If you solve all of a womans problems, she will only find more for you to solve. Add to that a sense of diminshment if you give in, and possibly resentment that could last a while.
If you sell your car, do it on your terms, and only if you are going to trade up to something that will make you just as happy. Never forget that women only ''like'' nice guys. They LOVE MEN. Don't be going around being a nice guy. Be a man for God's sake. Keep it like a man, or sell it like a man. Always make sure your wife knows it was YOUR CHOICE.
IMO, you really want a new car. There are lots of 911s out there if you ever want another one. What do you really want ? Me, I'd be putting the wife in a minivan, and parking the 911 in the garage while driving the Lexus to work. And telling her daily how lucky she is to have me.
If that makes no sense to you, go see a therapist. A male therapist. No kidding.
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