[mjshira]

some guys think they can accomplish having 'less drama' by letting the woman run the show. they think they are going to get the physical interaction they want and more of it, and have happier wife. they think they are being a 'good man' by giving up passions and hobbies in a vain attempt to satisfy their wife.

it was said above, and I agree, if she loves you, loves you for you, she'll accept your passions and hobbies as her own. my wife never gets on me about Porsche stuff. But it has only been a year or so...