[Dan in Pasadena]

Slacker, I about "shat" as the expression goes.

If I am "out of step" or a duffer, etc. I don't care.

You are young enough (I assume) to have one and you STILL think "there is not much trashier". I am ALWAYS going to be terribly uncomfortable with the fact that she has this. Its never going to change. It doesn't make her other than the devoted, high achiever, highly successful daughter she has always been...but it is never far from my mind.