[john70t]

The sex-phobic society only seems to magnify the need for it in males.
It is a constantly repeated hint of a message which sells beer and cars in order to create an escapist fantasy mindset.
What is "banned" must be quite scarce and valuable, eh? A pre-wired rebel is always interested only in what is on the other side of the wall. Where are our eyes on a g-string cutie?

So then males desire "it" more, and females believe "it" is worth more, and much wasted time is spent around the final goal of "it": A moment of temporary satisfaction being viewed as the culmination of self-realization. Slave to instinctual reaction.

Meanwhile the basic human abilities of communication and relationship are downplayed as unessessary, so after the hormonal sex round (day/week/month) is over, there are females with high expectations and males with sexual boredom.
Neither partner has developed emotionally, and no emotional bond has taken place, so no common elements remain between the two.

Cultural stigma used to be significant when people in this country had close ties with their family and neightbors but no more.
So how to solve the mess? Divorce lawyers and paternety laws.
Exit long-term paring of mates, enter disposable people and society. Fear and greed.

On the international-economic level, this type of carrot-on-a-stick culture will prove to be a real time waster in terms of productive student/worker hours. We'll see.