I discovered that my work laptop has an infra-red port, so I enabled it. It immediately recognized my phone. I found a couple of wallpapers online, downloaded them and was then able to push them to the phone. I haven't yet sampled any ringtones, but I'll be doing that shortly.
Here are the wallpapers that I got.
and for the smaller screen on the outside of the phone
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Steve
'08 Boxster RS60 Spyder #0099/1960
- never named a car before, but this is Charlotte.
'88 targa

SOLD 2004 - gone but not forgotten