[MRM]

I think the sticking point is the company, not the two exes. I don't do family law but it seems to me this sort of thing is done all the time. I think all they have to do is go back to court and get an order directing the company to put a portion of the defered comp into her name. I think it is not that the company can't do it, it's more that they won't. With a court order they don't have a choice.