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It always was everywhere. And I know how hard it is to tell someone that you will not watch them die, or give them a dime to help them do it. But that is the only thing to do. Most addicts will not change until all other options fail. And they will take it up again in a heartbeat rather than face whatever is eating them emotionally. Of course we want to help them, and give them all another chance, but an inch is all they need.
You can't give it to them, even if it goes against what you think, feel or were taught. And even if that is counter intuitive for you, they will intuitively know how to manipulate you, your emotions, or any situation. You can feel for them, you just can't act on it.
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