[Bill Douglas]

Don't be desparate. They can sense it.

As soon as you are not looking for a female there will be an over-supply. The best way to get into this situation is to start going out with lots of females as friends (or FB's). And start going with them to places you may not normally go to like Ballet, theater, (heaven forbid) a vegitarian resturant, beach volleyball... The list goes on. Don't be too focused on what you think you are looking for. Relax and enjoy.