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Originally Posted by k911sc
when changing the bedding i put TWO fitted sheets on the bed. not for the charmin like absorbency you may be thinking, but so if you drag a slab home on saturday night ......T$
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That's not a tip. It's a
confession!
A lot of sound advice, but of no value if you fail in the first 30 seconds, which is all the time it takes for a woman to decide. Sometimes less.
I've never dated a "slab".....I don't think. I always aimed high - usually models. There are 3 things that get you past that 30 second mark and into 30 minutes. You're on your own after that.
1. Massive self-confidence (absolutely not to be confused with arrogance). I don't care what you look like, your chances increase tenfold with self confidence. The mindset you should adopt - "I don't care". If one shoots you down, there's another just across the room. Don't waste time on lost causes or let rejection demoralize you. One trick I used to keep myself "up"- If I got rudely shot down, I went to the next closest girl and tried it on her. It even occassionally works, but the main idea is to shake off the rejection right away. The "I don't care" effect it has also knocks the smugness right off the previous girl which will make you feel better about yourself. I've actually had the "1st" girl approach me later to win
me over because she felt demoralized by my indifference. She felt a need to prove herself.
2. Smile and a sense of humor. Nuff said.
3. Create "good" tension. Disagree with her on something light (not world peace or love of kittens). If she says she likes a certain actor, tell her you "So disagree". Cite humerous examples as to why he is less than a man than he should be. It breaks down barriers and creates "good" tension.
If you don't already know to dress nicely, smell good, and in general, maintain yourself, get used to "slabs". No tip will help.