[MMARSH]

Correct me if I'm wrong, But I think you get that your seperated and what goes along with that, but it's the fact that this guy is a "Friend" and is trying to hook up with her, then act like you guys are cool . I know how hard it was not to go and kick his ass. I had a similiar experience a long time ago and went after the guy. I can honestly say I was seeing red. I personally never want to be that angry again. You did the right thing not going after him, but I understand your anger.

In regards to your feelings about your wife. I understand those feelings as well and I wonder if I'll ever feel that for another woman.