[DonDavis]

Hell Ryan,
Here's my .02 worth. I wouldn't put too much confidence in the son either. No telling if he's "reporting" back to dad.

My advice? Have a man to man conversation with him. Ask point blank if he is your friend or your soon-to-be ex's suitor. Tell him he can't and won't be both. He decides and you let it end there. Peacefully.

20+ years ago, I got hammered and almost broke the bros before hos creed. I did not touch the girl but made clear advances. The next day the bro and I talked and he said we were cool. I felt like crap then and can't begin to imagine doing that now.

I'm recently divorced and know that eventually (if not already) my ex will be "out there". I've mentally dealt with it and understand what lies ahead.

You'll be fine. Hell, AZ is just a hop skip and a jump from you. Come out for a weekend and we'll have a few beers, hang out with Porsche dudes and grill some steaks! I'm serious!