You guys are more than likely right!
hmmmm, I thought she was going to be the one and things just stopped being "give and take" during arguments. I kept thinking at those times, OMG, she sounds just like my EX! WTF??? they even used similar wording. Strange ... It made me think that maybe I'm doing something that affects women in a similar fashion ... lolo ...
I'm gonna do what RWebb suggested since that's the way I am. One last talk.
Yep, tang is gonna have to get put back on my list of things to do

Wish there wasn't snow up to knees or I'd be driving my love
Thanks everybody !!
note: hopefully others will find some nuggets here for themselves too