Matt & Ramm have made my day
Thanks guys!
Two replies:
Recognizing people: truth is I have a hard time recognizing people I do know? yikes!
Sex: There's different levels of dating (for guys). Some levels involve receiving sex at the very first opportunity, no sex, no more dates. Others can be more patient, but this comes with age.
Now as a father of 4 daughters, there's definately no sex for women until marriage!